Pretending not to be hurt Is such a brave thing to do.
But you know what?
Crying is even braver.
Because not everyone can face the fact That some things are not meant to be. _____________________________________________________________________
The most hard headed people in the whole wide world Are those people who are in love.
Whatever you tell them, They just wouldn't listen. _____________________________________________________________________
People get hurt with love Because they try to deny Its existence or its absence.
Don't make things complicated For it is hard to find an answer.
If you love each other, Build up a relationship wherein You'll both find true happiness.
If you know love has faded, Just let go, And don't dream As if there is still chance For love to come back.
Because the more you deny What's inside your heart, The more pain you are trying to catch. _____________________________________________________________________
I wasn't aware that he came Only to love me for a while.
I was aiming to be with him forever But he's not willing to work it all out.
While I was busy planning for us, He was busy planning his life With someone else.
It hurts too much But all I can do Is watch him walk away And that's the end of it.
There goes my forever.
There goes my life.
I know he's gone, But holding on to him Has become my way Of keeping myself alive. _____________________________________________________________________
The more we think of the future, the more we forget the present.
Always keep in mind that, No matter where we're going, It starts from where we are now. _____________________________________________________________________
In three words I could sum up everything I learned.
About life: It goes on.
About love: It doesn't last.
About people: They change fast. _____________________________________________________________________
One of the most amazing things in the world is having someone fall in love with you.
Who you never thought of having chances with. _____________________________________________________________________
Love is like drinking beer.
Once you have too much of it, You begin to act stupid. _____________________________________________________________________
Studies show that...
A woman will never own a man's heart 100%, And a man will never own a woman's trust 100%. _____________________________________________________________________
Think about this:
Anyone can make you happy By doing something special, But only someone special Can make you happy Without doing anything. _____________________________________________________________________
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They say, if you felt real love and lost it, You'll never be able to smile.
I'm not sure if that's true.
I can still smile.
It just f**king hurts. _____________________________________________________________________
Just because my eyes don't mist Doesn't mean my heart doesn't cry.
And just because I come out strong Doesn't mean there's nothing wrong.
Often, I choose to pretend I'm happy.
So I don't have to explain myself To people who'll never understand.
Smiling has always been easier Than explaining why I'm sad. _____________________________________________________________________
For a long time now I've been asking myself, Where does love go after someone breaks up with you?
Why suddenly we feel tired of loving that person?
Why we cannot offer even friendship?
And I found the answer.
Many may think I'm stupid not to know But the answer is simple.
It is because one expects something in return When they give love away, And when we don't get what we expect We feel tired or even give up.
Many have said that love is not selfish, but really, it is.
It always has, And it will always be. _____________________________________________________________________
The saddest part of letting go Is the moment you stepped back, Turned and walked away, Waiting for a shout calling your name, Calling you back, that would never come.
Then you're left with tears Involuntarily falling from your eyes, And the realization that the person Is not going to run after you. _____________________________________________________________________
Fact: There is always going to be That one thing you wish for but never get, That one mistake you can never take back And most of all, That one memory you would do anything for, Just to have it again. _____________________________________________________________________
Love takes time. It needs history of giving and receiving.
Love is the joy that makes people smile.
Love is easy to feel but so hard to explain, Easy to get but so hard to let go, Easy to spell but so hard to define.
Love is created not by words but by feelings, Not by humans but by hearts, not by one but two.
Love is not how you forget but how you forgive, Not how you listen but how you understand, Not what you see but what you feel, Not how to let go, but how you hold. _____________________________________________________________________
He was mine but not really.
I never really had him So I never really lost him.
I guess this is how we'll always be.
I had him, he had me, But then again, There's no "US" really. _____________________________________________________________________
It's hard to wait around for something You know might not happen.
But it's harder to give up When you know it's everything you ever wanted. _____________________________________________________________________
Being a third party doesn't mean that Your destroying a relationship.
It only means that you make two souls realize That they're not meant to be. ^_^ _____________________________________________________________________
The hardest part about walking away From the one you love is the part That you have to realize That they will never ever run after you. _____________________________________________________________________
You know what's the one wrong thing We all do when we fall in love?
We expect.
And it just ruins everything. _____________________________________________________________________
What you are really afraid of is that You're not scared of the dark, But you're scared of what's in it.
You're not afraid of heights, But you're afraid of falling.
You're not afraid of the people around you, You're just afraid of rejection.
You're not afraid to love, You're afraid of not being loved back.
And you're not afraid to try again, You're just afraid of getting hurt For the same reason. _____________________________________________________________________
True lover would say this When he needs space and time:
"Let go though we'll be apart.
I'll be back just let me follow my heart." _____________________________________________________________________
In the cruel world of love, We've learned that...
Promises aren't contracts.
Kisses aren't assurances.
Sweet words aren't guarantees.
Big hugs aren't bonds.
And that nothing's permanent in this life.
One day, he's mine.
The next day, he's gone.
Last night, he was sweet.
The next morning, he's insensitive.
Loving someone is not always About fairytales and fantasies.
It's about truth and realities. _____________________________________________________________________
It's tough when people start to leave you hanging.
It's even tougher to pretend that you don't mind.
I like a love that is like What a baby shampoo guarantees... No more tears. _____________________________________________________________________
I never wished for someone Who would offer me the moon and the stars, Just someone to lay down with And watch them is enough. _____________________________________________________________________
We often have things Right before our eyes Without seeing them.
Because we simply don't know how to focus.
-- W.i.t.c.h. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes when you least expect it, Love taps you on your shoulder And asks you to move out of the way, Because it still isn't your turn. _____________________________________________________________________
You say there's no such thing As letting go of the past Because it's like a wound.
The bleeding may stop And the wound may heal, But the scar will always remain.
So you choose to stay In the torture chamber.
But what you don't know is To stop the pain, You don't have to let go of the past, You just have to stop dreaming of it As the future. _____________________________________________________________________
Don't be too cold to someone you care about, Just because that person couldn't realize your worth.
Instead, be nice to them, So they could realize What they've been missing. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes you can't stop yourself From hoping for yesterday to come back, Especially when yesterday Was the only future you ever wanted And needed from the start. _____________________________________________________________________
You know what?
Life is short, so never hold back.
Forgive like you have amnesia.
Believe like a kid.
Love like crazy.
And never regret anything that made you happy. _____________________________________________________________________
Just when you've moved on and thought you've finally gone far enough, something brings you to a touchstone.
And that's when you realize, love has a habit of coming back _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes you feel like Your done waiting and holding on, But it's amazing how feelings Are gone one moment and later, Renewed by a simple song That reminds you of their voice, The way they make you smile And you are completely clueless why.
The way you look away Once you realize they're staring back, And the hurt comes back all over again, And you realize that you didn't let go, You just thought you did.
Ouch... _____________________________________________________________________
Follow your heart wherever it leads you, And when you reach a dead end Or whenever you get lost, Use your brain to bring you back home.
-- Dori, Finding Nemo _____________________________________________________________________
I wish love is like death -- permanent, And comes only once in a lifetime. _____________________________________________________________________
If you find yourself in love With someone who doesn't love you, Be real with yourself.
There's nothing wrong with you.
It's just that love chose to rest On another person's heart.
If you find someone in love with you whom you don't love, Feel honored 'coz love has knocked on your door, But gently refuse the gift which you can't return.
If you find yourself in love With someone who loves you too But love chooses to leave.
Don't try to reclaim it or assess blame.
Let it go.
Remember, you don't choose love.
Love chooses you.
Love has its own time, own season, own meaning, own reason for coming and going. _____________________________________________________________________
One night, Someone noticed a star Lost its usual bright glow, And asked it why.
Then it answered, "I've grown tired and weak Shining for someone Who's glance has never been mine."
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How can we love people who don't seem To make things worth at all?
Why do we become so numb caring for people Whom at times don't even think of us in a day or two?
Why do we let ourselves hurt and continue hoping For a love that makes us defenseless?
And why do we prioritize these people Who only choose us as options?
Are these the reasons why sometimes in love, We end up losing ourselves?
Sad, but I believe it's true.
I have come to realize and have proven That no matter how much pain a person gives you, You just lower your head to cry for a moment And then embrace the hurt with understanding.
You are not a fool and you don't reflect martyrdom.
It is simply, without hesitations, Letting love overrate pain, Without abhorring the person.
Pain is well known for its superficiality But love dwells deeply forever. _____________________________________________________________________
It's not about being who everyone else wants you to be.
It's about being yourself, And finding someone who loves every bit of it. _____________________________________________________________________
Not all seemingly happy people are happy indeed.
When the fun's over, Some sit alone And quietly bleed. _____________________________________________________________________
Happy moments are evil, When they're gone. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes we expect more from others, Because we would be willing to do that much for them. _____________________________________________________________________
Women might be able to fake orgasms, But men can fake whole relationships. _____________________________________________________________________
Forgiveness is setting a prisoner free And then discovering it was you. _____________________________________________________________________
Every bad situation will have something positive, Even a broken clock shows correct time twice a day.
Think positive about life. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes love is a playing card.
So be careful to whom you choose.
Love spade, love heart, Love diamond, love flower, But never love the joker. _____________________________________________________________________
There are battles you have to fight in silence, Because you know that speaking up, Saying something or doing something Will make you lose. _____________________________________________________________________
People say that bad memories cause the most pain, But actually, it's the good ones that drive us insane. _____________________________________________________________________
Once you lied, There's already a rule on the mind Of the person whom you lied to That is to never believe How believable your words are, Even if their not lies anymore. _____________________________________________________________________
Someone should sue Disney, For making every girl believe That they have a prince charming. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes we think that love should be reciprocal, That if we are in a relationship, Everything should be equal.
But that mentality is wrong, Love isn't about give and take, But rather give and give.
Remember Mother Teresa was once asked To define love and her answer was, "Love is giving until it hurts."
So don't hate yourself if you think you gave it all And your partner gave only half because in the end, At least you can say "I loved more." _____________________________________________________________________
Find someone who wants to kiss you everyday, Who lifts and hugs you when you're jealous, Who patiently keeps silent when you're mad, Who fixes your hair just to see your face, And the one who wants to have lunch with you with his/her family,.
The one who shares his/her drinks with you, Who squeezes your hand together when you squeeze his/hers, And the one who'll cut work just to have a date with you.
Find someone who plans and imagines His/her future with you 7 years from now And when you find him/her, Never let go.
When your heart gets hurt, You don't need someone to heal the scar And take away the pain.
What you need is someone Who will make you realize That nothing is really broken. _____________________________________________________________________ The reason we are suffering Is not because love has ended, But because it still continues, Even after everything is over. _____________________________________________________________________
Distancing is done for two reasons.
Either because you hate the person, Or you're just too scared To fall completely for that person. _____________________________________________________________________
Love is weakest when There is more doubt than trust.
Love is strongest when You learn to trust Despite all doubts. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes you just have to put a period On something that has to end, And not just settle on a comma.
Why?
'Coz time will come you'll realize That it's better to see a complete sentence, Rather than seeing a phrase That's completely hanging And doesn't even make any sense. _____________________________________________________________________ I guess, love does fade That sometimes the heart does get tired Of longing, of hoping, That sometimes you just have to accept The fact that some things can never be And that you should be contented With things as they are.
Leaving is a choice.
Staying is a choice.
But you can never really ask someone To stay or leave.
It's a choice They have to make. _____________________________________________________________________
Always use your heart in loving someone, 'Coz it's the only accurate instrument That knows how it is.
But if the pain strikes you down, And it hurt you all along, It's the time for you to use your brain.
'Coz heart knows how to start, But only brain knows when to stop. _____________________________________________________________________
I don't know why we all hang on to something We know we're better off letting go.
It's like we're scared to lose What we don't even really have.
Some of us say we'd rather have That something than absolutely nothing.
But truth is, "To have it halfway is harder Than not having it at all." _____________________________________________________________________
In love, you can make mistakes. But the biggest mistake you could ever do Is to give up someone you love and say, "It's for the best so we'll stop hurting each other." _____________________________________________________________________
We can never be happy With something that was wrong.
But if somewhere along the way What was wrong has made you happy, Then it must have been right all along. _____________________________________________________________________
There are days we feel That our heart is broken again.
Well, you know why?
'Coz instead of moving on and walking forward, We hurt ourselves by looking back. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes, it's not the possibility Of rejection that frightens us.
It is the thought of not knowing what happens next Once you both find out that you feel the same way. _____________________________________________________________________
When you love someone, It doesn't matter how many times you cried, How many hurting words you have heard, But it's how much you care, And how long you are willing to sacrifice. _____________________________________________________________________
It's sad when people you know Become people you knew.
When you can't walk right past someone As if they were never a big part of your life, How you used to be able to talk for hours, And now, you can barely even look at them.
It's just sad how things change, so much. _____________________________________________________________________ Pretending to be happy when you're in pain Is just an example of how strong you are as a person.
Still making that simple smile When every part of you dies.
1. Knows how to make you smile when you're down.
2. Always gives you a goodbye kiss, even when friends are watching.
3. Knows the perfect time to hold your hand.
4. Funny, but knows when he/she needs to be serious.
5. Reacts so cutely when you hit him/her and acts hurt.
6. Stares at you when he/she thinks you don't notice.
7. Gets a little jealous sometimes, but knows he/she's the only one you want.
8. Drive 5 hours, just to see you for 1 hour, or wait for an hour, just to spend 5 minutes with you.
The reason why we hold on To something so tight for so long Is because we fear that something so great Will never happen twice. _____________________________________________________________________ It's never the tears That measure the pain.
Sometimes it's the smile we fake Just to show others we're ok. _____________________________________________________________________
She said, "You weren't supposed to mean this much to me, but you do."
He said, "I know, and I wasn't supposed to fall in love, but I did." _____________________________________________________________________
The only person that deserves you Is the one that thinks he/she doesn't, The one that'll stick by your side No matter how much you mess up, And the one who will forgive you, Mistake after mistake. _____________________________________________________________________
A 'goodbye' is never painful, unless, You're never going to say 'hello' again. _____________________________________________________________________ There are lots of instances When you feel that everything is going well Between you and this person.
You get together again one night And share feelings, Thinking that tomorrow, You will have something deeper.
Only to realize the next morning That what happened that night isn't real.
The two of you can never be, And it will always be the same old story. _____________________________________________________________________
In order for one to move on, You must understand what you felt, Why you felt it, And why you should no longer feel it. _____________________________________________________________________
How is it to be unnoticed By the person you notice most?
It's as if you were offering Your most beautiful portrait To a blind person. _____________________________________________________________________
Here's a sad reality:
You can't forget a person you love so much No matter how much you try to do it.
It's impossible, unless, You learn to love somebody else. _____________________________________________________________________
There will come a point in your life When you'll get tired of chasing everyone, Trying to fix everything.
It's not giving up.
It's just a realization That you don't need all Those you went after.
Because what you need Are those who stood by you Even if you never needed them. _____________________________________________________________________
Life is like riding a bicycle.
In order to maintain balance, You have to keep moving on. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes it's easier to let the one you love go Not knowing the real reason.
'Coz it would surely hurt more When you find it unreasonable. _____________________________________________________________________
Law of unattachment:
"Don't cling to anything that needs to go. Everything in this world is not permanent. You just have to love it while you have it." _____________________________________________________________________
Sad reality:
"Even if we know that it's hopeless, We still try.
'Coz the sad fact is we always want What we know we can never have." _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes you have to try not to care No matter how much you do.
'Coz sometimes you can mean nothing To someone who means everything to you.
It's not pride.
It's self-respect.
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Lesson in NCM 202 about pain:
1. What is pain? ` First love.
2. What triggers pain? ` Memories.
3. What can heal pain? ` Time.
4. What lengthens pain? ` Martyrdom.
5. What's the initial syn of pain? ` Tears.
6. What's the primary defense mechanism of pain? ` Denial.
7. What's the primary stressor of pain? ` Theme song.
8. How can you remove pain? ` Let go.
9. How can you forget pain? ` Move on.
10. What's the history of pain? ` Break up.
11. Why do we experience pain? ` Because we have a heart that loves.
It's a wonder how love strikes you At the most unexpected time. And somehow, in some way, It disappears exactly at the moment You are ready to face it. _____________________________________________________________________ It has never been a question Of who forgets, But sometimes, There is a definite pain On being the only one Who remembers everything. _____________________________________________________________________
Everyday, I try to prove to myself How wrong I am with my conceptions with men. Everyday, I give them the benefit of the doubt, Hoping that they'd prove otherwise. And yet, everyday, Though I find reasons to like them, I find a whole dozen of reasons Why I should not trust them. Men are great friends, Not boyfriends. _____________________________________________________________________
When I was a little kid, I fell from a tree, but I managed to hold on to a branch. I was up there for a long time and waited, The silence, the pain in my arms, The blood pumping in my ears, then I fell. I can't remember what happened When I hit the ground. All I could remember was The agony of holding on And the wonderful feeling Of letting go. _____________________________________________________________________
Love is much like a tattoo. You take the risk, face the pain, And yet, place it in a special part of you. And when the time comes That you need to erase it, You have to endure greater pain And realize that it will forever leave a scar. A scar that will always remind you That you had a tattoo, that for sometime, Symbolized something so special to you. _____________________________________________________________________ We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, And the one thing that we should say, Is the one thing that we don't say. And yet, because the feeling is so real, And the need to say it is strong, We are driven to use other words and signs To say what we really mean. And many times the meaning Never gets communicated at all, And the other person is left Feeling unloved and unwanted. _____________________________________________________________________
A good apology has three parts: 1. I'm sorry. 2. It was my fault. 3. How do I make it right? A lot of people usually miss the third part. _____________________________________________________________________
You know why it's hard to be happy? It's because we refuse to let go Of the things that make us sad. _____________________________________________________________________
What's love? It's when you find someone Who didn't meet any of your standards, And yet you say, "I've found the right one." _____________________________________________________________________
A couple was celebrating their first anniversary. The guy gave his girl a dead rose with a little card. The girl felt insulted and left the guy. Sad part was the card read: "This is me without you." _____________________________________________________________________
When you have found the reason To walk away, never look back. Just keep on walking, Even if destination is unclear. It will take a lot of courage For every step you make But it will save some pride And honor for yourself. It's better to get lost moving on Than being stranded and broken after all. _____________________________________________________________________
The purpose-driven life: "Those who have hurt you in the past Cannot continue to hurt you now, Unless you hold on to the pain Through resentment. Your past is past, Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself With your bitterness. For your own sake, Learn from it And then let it go." _____________________________________________________________________
Talking about sacrifices: "You do anything for the one you love, Even if it means risking your own freedom, Letting your guard down, exposing you bare, And making you an easy target. It doesn't mean you're weak, You're just strong enough to stand and fight For the people you care for." -- Sandman (Spiderman 3) _____________________________________________________________________
If you think that The person you love Doesn't love you, You are right. 'Coz if he/she does, There's no way he/she Would let you think that way. _____________________________________________________________________
Developing new emotions For someone is easy. The hard part is Getting rid of the old emotions You had for someone else.
By the time you realize What your parents said was right, You already have a kid Who begins to think you are wrong. _____________________________________________________________________
Sad but true..
You can always forgive the people who hurt you, But you can never forget what they did. _____________________________________________________________________
Question: How come that the eye Is the most amazing part of the human body?
Answer: 'Coz a severe contact with another eye Can make you fall in love. _____________________________________________________________________
What to do when faced with two choices?
Toss a coin.
It works not because It settles the question for you, But while the coin is in the air, You suddenly know what you're hoping for. _____________________________________________________________________
Can't find the right words To a certain situation?
Just give that person a hug.
Words have the potential to confuse But hugs never lie. _____________________________________________________________________
It's better to let that someone know That you still like them, So they know how to stop hurting you, Than keeping your mouth shut, But letting your heart die and fall. _____________________________________________________________________
To walk is what I always do, But I prefer not to look back To people who are no longer walking with me.
Then someone asked me, "Why did you just let other people leave you?"
Then I answered, "Life is a long journey. Let's see who will be walking with me Until the end of the road." _____________________________________________________________________
The heart is like a rubix cube.
Someone is supposed to mess the cubes first, So someone else could fit the colors perfectly. _____________________________________________________________________
The father of a girl asked his daughter's boyfriend, "What can you do for my daughter?"
"I would die for her," the boyfriend answered.
"I don't like you," the dad replied.
"Why?", asked the boyfriend.
The dad answered, "I'm looking for someone wo would live for her, Not someone who would just die and leave her alone." _____________________________________________________________________
I hate insomnia.
Not because it doesn't put me into sleep Despite of my tired body, But because it puts me into The state of reminiscing memories Which I know I can't bring back.
And I wish I could drive insomnia away.
Not so I can dream well, But so I can save my pillow From being bathed of my tears. _____________________________________________________________________
A broken trust can be best described As a crumpled piece of paper.
No matter how hard you try to straighten it out, It will never return to normal. _____________________________________________________________________
Boy: I'm really glad you're with me.
Girl: What if we're not meant to be?
Boy: You overthink things.
Girl: Tell me, what if we're not meant to be?
Boy: Well, so what? Make a mistake with me. _____________________________________________________________________
Time will come you'll be doing things You were not supposed to do.
You'll be trying so hard to love other souls Just to forget the soul That you truly love yet hurt you so.
You can be happy but deep inside your heart Are the cuts of every memory You have been endlessly preserving.
And at the end you'll just realize That all those times you've been fooling yourself.
'Coz no matter how much you try to let go and forget, Your soul will only be loving that single soul That you tried to dream of having back And spending your life forever with. _____________________________________________________________________
Don't give up when you still have something to give.
Nothing is really over unless you stop trying.
Don't be afraid to encounter risks.
It's by taking chances that we learn to be brave. _____________________________________________________________________
Some people are sweet at first.
Always have time for you at first.
Serious at first.
But why do some people change After you love them so much?
Maybe all romantic moments Only happen at first, And never last.
Real friendship isn't just about Having something in common.
It's the acceptance Of that completely annoying attitude And being able to put up with it. _____________________________________________________________________
A piece of advice:
Never ever reach a point Where you regret something Just because you thought It was a mistake.
Remember, once upon a time, It made you smile. _____________________________________________________________________
If wonderland was that wonderful, Then why did Alice choose to leave?
Probably because there are things better lived out Rather than just dreamed about. _____________________________________________________________________
A nice logic:
When there are rumors about you, It automatically means you're interesting. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes you have to stop loving The most important person in your life, Not because the spark is gone, But because that person is unintentionally Making you feel worthless. _____________________________________________________________________
"The smarter the woman The harder it is for her To find the perfect man."
-- Oprah _____________________________________________________________________
Do not just easily neglect An effort of a person to keep in touch.
People get tired.
It's not at all times That they hold on. _____________________________________________________________________
At times when you're sad About what's going on your life, Just remember one permanent fact:
Everything changes.
Tomorrow might be different. _____________________________________________________________________
Women are like the police.
They can have all the evidence in the world, But they still want the confession. _____________________________________________________________________
Do you know what happens When you hurt people?
They may begin to love you less And begin to forget That they loved you once. _____________________________________________________________________
Repeated experiences have but one aim:
To teach what you refuse to learn. _____________________________________________________________________
If you're looking for a happy ending And you couldn't find one, Find a new beginning instead. _____________________________________________________________________
I am wanted by many.
I'm looking at some.
I am taken by none.
But I am waiting for one. _____________________________________________________________________
Psych speaks:
It's not what people do to us that hurt us, In the most fundamental sense, It's our chosen response To what they do to us that hurts. _____________________________________________________________________
Never use failure as an excuse For not trying again.
We may not be able to reclaim the loss, Undo the damage, or reverse the consequences But we can always make a new start.
They say, "Smart people usually Have stupid hearts."
And so, "With the rate of my heart's stupidity I must be so damn genius." _____________________________________________________________________
It's hard to completely start trusting someone When everytime you're trying to They are starting to lie again to you.
What's the lesson?
Just listen, But don't bother believing. _____________________________________________________________________
Never think that You're not good enough for anyone.
Always ask yourself If they are good enough for you. _____________________________________________________________________
I wish I have saved all my tears When you made me cry, So that you will drown there and die. _____________________________________________________________________
What I've learned today:
Let go of the things That can no longer be fixed.
If you force to try to put them back, Things will only get worse.
Holding on is being brave, But sometimes moving on Makes you even tougher. _____________________________________________________________________
If he can't love you back, Just let go.
Just think that he was just another toy That mom and dad can't buy.
For sure, you'll find a better one next time. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes it's easier to act like you don't care at all Than to admit that it's killing you. _____________________________________________________________________
The most stupid thing about relationships:
They love you when they see you.
But when they don't, They flirt with someone else. _____________________________________________________________________
How I wish I could be a stethoscope.
In that way, I could have the chance to hear Whose heart is beating for me. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes if a string gets too tangled And messed up to solve, It's better to cut it out To start a new one And save the untangled part. _____________________________________________________________________
Our life is surrounded by people Who judge you in and out.
They can make or break you.
But the key there is "Live your own And never mind them." _____________________________________________________________________
Not at all times love is wonderful.
Unnoticely, You become an idiot, Coward and fool.
Worst, it will make your heart bleed Until nothing is left for you. _____________________________________________________________________
As you read a book, It's hard to turn into another page Unless you understand the first one.
Just like love.
It's hard to go on with the new, Unless you're over with your past. _____________________________________________________________________
If I could hug him tight, I would.
If I could hold him close, I would.
If I could love him forever, I would.
It's not that I don't have the will.
I just don't know if I have the right. _____________________________________________________________________
"Special" is different from "important".
"Special" -- someone you'll never forget for the rest of your life.
"Important" -- someone you need for the rest of your life.
"Try loving someone you've loved before, And you'll realize that it will either Lead to the same thing that happened before Or something better.
Not hard, huh?
But why not try loving someone Who doesn't love you back?
It's either you see yourself Giving up or dying daily"
-- Grey's Anatomy _____________________________________________________________________
I was a little gloomy, And my mom noticed.
She asked if I have a wound That she may attend to them.
I touched my chest and said, "There's no blood coming out, But why does it hurt?" _____________________________________________________________________
Don't always say that "There's still time".
Because there's also a concept of "Too late." _____________________________________________________________________
One day you have to wake up And realize nothing lasts forever.
So when it's done, It's done.
Move on. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes we know the answer To our questions.
Yet we still ask.
Why?
It's because the answer we know Is the one we can't bear to admit. _____________________________________________________________________
Two of the hardest tests in life:
` The patience to wait For the right moment.
and
` The courage to accept That you've waited for nothing. _____________________________________________________________________
Isn't it great when there is someone Who would ask you how your day was.
If everything worked out fine Or if there is something wrong.
It feels really good when you know Someone treats you special And you'd find it amazing That even how busy life may be, He'd still find a few minutes of their time Just to send you sweet nothings through texts.
Like everyone else, We wish for that... For someone who'd give us, Something that everyone else wants.
Something which, by the way, I know, we deserve. _____________________________________________________________________
If cinderella's glass slippers perfectly fit Why did it fall off along the way?
Maybe it speaks about an important lesson: "Not eveything that perfectly fits, Fits forever." _____________________________________________________________________
Fall in love?
That's a hard thing to do.
I'd rather have beer.
It makes you warm inside.
Much like love.
Then when you had too much to drink, You fall hard.
Same thing.
But when you have too much love and get hurt, It takes so long to recover.
While with beer, Just sleep then it's over. _____________________________________________________________________
Never break four things in your life: 1. Trust 2. Promise 3. Relationship 4. Heart
Because when they break, They don't make noise But hurts a lot. _____________________________________________________________________
Saying you're strong Doesn't spare you from pain.
Saying you've forgotten someone Doesn't spare you from reminiscing.
Saying you've fallen out of love Doesn't spare you from hurting.
And saying you're ok Doesn't spare you from fooling yourself. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometime I'm scared To wake up in the morning To see that I'm alone.
That's why I tend To stay up late at night And wake up the next day cramming.
It's easier keeping myself busy And denying that I'm alone and sad. _____________________________________________________________________
My heart said: "I was the one who loved you most But between us, you lost more.
For someday I can love someone The way i loved you, But you will never be loved again The way that i did." _____________________________________________________________________
Once there was a butterfly in my palm, But I let it flew.
Not because I don't love it, But because I wanted it to enjoy With the flowers and bees.
Keeping it in my palm won't make it The best butterfly it can be.
So from a distance, I'm happier watching it Fly and play in the garden While the sun is still shining.
Because when the rain comes, I know, if it truly loves me, It will fly back to me. _____________________________________________________________________
Don't hold too long to What's never meant to be.
Sometimes we need to set things free Before it hurts us badly.
I'm not gonna hold too long To what's never meant.
Sometimes, I need to set things free, Before it totally kills me. _____________________________________________________________________
Do you know why It's so hard to forget?
Because in forgetting, You have to remember What you want to forget.
How can you forget If you always remember? _____________________________________________________________________
Have you ever loved Someone that's so close?
Close enough That all you need to do Is grab his hand To make him yours?
But then, All you could say is "I almost had him".
Almost. _____________________________________________________________________
It's funny to pretend unhurt, When you're bleeding.
To pretend to be strong, When you're weak.
To say go away, When you mean Please stay.
And to say I've moved on, But in reality, You're crying in pain. _____________________________________________________________________
Proven truth:
When a person is really into you, She/He will always find a way To have time for you. _____________________________________________________________________
It's wrong to keep expecting, Especially if the situation Tells that things are not Just meant for you.
But are you to be blamed When someone just keeps On making you feel That things are right? _____________________________________________________________________
It's not the great things we do And the people who applaud that matters, But the times we screw up, Break down, fall apart, hit the floor, And the friends who stick around And help us laugh through it all. _____________________________________________________________________
The only true painful goodbyes Are the ones that are never said.
And never explained. _____________________________________________________________________
Moving on?
That's very easy.
Just close your eyes.
Sleep.
And wish not to wake up anymore. _____________________________________________________________________
Once in a while, Right in the middle Of an ordinary life, Love gives us a fairytale. _____________________________________________________________________
"I tried."
The sweetest thing You could ever say For a failed relationship.
Maybe the shortest But it compliments everything. _____________________________________________________________________
A true friend is like blood.
Sustaining life.
Not always visible.
But comes out Everytime you're wounded. _____________________________________________________________________
When you realize How hard it is To change yourself, You begin to understand What little chances we have Of changing others. _____________________________________________________________________
Someday I'm gonna hurt you With what I might say.
I could even hate you then.
And when I tell you To leave me and go away, Promise me.
You won't listen. _____________________________________________________________________
A lovely girl walked up to a guy And to his surprise, There were tears flowing down Her soft, subtle eyes.
"Why do you guys Always hurt your girl? Always break our hearts, And always need to have More than one girl? Is it an unspoken competition Among all men?" She proclaimed.
The guy smiled, Handed her his hanky And answered: "Why do you girls Always love the wrong guy? Always take the other guy for granted, Always break his heart, And always need to have More than one suitor? Is it an unspoken competition Among all women?"
INSIDE ANIMO FOODHAUS Jason: Tara. Fidji: Wait lng. (Waiting for her mango shake/smoothie/juice) Jason: Bakit hindi buko? Fidji: Eh ayoko nun eh. Jason: Puro ka mango, bakit ginintuan ba puso mo? Fidji: Oo naman. Jason: Ginintuan daw. Fidji: Oo kaya. Mabait naman ako eh. Jason: Mabait daw. Kasasabi mo lang kahapon na masama ka eh. Fidji: Ikaw kaya nagsasabi na masama ako, oo lang ako ng oo. Jason: Ahh, basta, masama ka. OUTSIDE ANIMO FOODHAUS Jason: Ginintuan daw puso niya, di naman eh. Fidji: Hindi naman talaga. Jason: Labo mo. Sabi mo lang kanina ginintuan puso mo. Fidji: Hindi ginto puso ko. Pano pa kaya titibok kung ginto puso ko? Jason: Ang emo!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
In love, You have to expect absence At some point.
But that doesn't mean an end.
All you have to do Is to wait for a time, And give the person a space.
Because true love is proved When a person has seen The best people in the world, But still turns back To where you are, Reaches for your hand, And chooses you Above the world's best. _____________________________________________________________________
Pain and sorrow, Go hand in hand With true love.
For love Is never ideal, But real.
So, don't even wonder What heartaches are for.
Remember the song 'Iris'?
"You bleed just to know you're alive." _____________________________________________________________________
I hate endings.
It's not because I'm left alone or I'm not loved anymore.
I hate endings, Because they leave me thinking Of how and when To start again. _____________________________________________________________________
Risks co-exist with opportunities.
If you don't go after what you want, Somebody else will.
If you don't ask, Then you'll never know.
If you don't step forward, You'd always be in the same place. _____________________________________________________________________
Funny how a man's silence Can break a woman's heart Into a thousand pieces, While a woman's silence Can give a man Thousand moments of confusion. _____________________________________________________________________
Waiting for Someone you love Is never easy, Especially when The one you're waiting for Isn't aware That you are waiting. _____________________________________________________________________
"Some people say They can't live without love.
Well, oxygen is more important."
-- Dr. Gregory House _____________________________________________________________________
15 ways to keep a relationship working:
` Love each other. ` Don't lie. ` Keep communication open. ` Stay sweet. ` When you get hurt, just forgive and forget. ` Never talk about break-ups. ` Never say it's ok, even if it's not. ` Forget about pride. ` If you say sorry, mean it. ` Don't compare your past to your present. ` Don't talk about your stupid exes. ` Give and take process. ` Be aware of his/her feelings. ` When you have a fight, don't let the day pass without being fine. ` Don't be a perfect one, be the right one. _____________________________________________________________________
People have different outlooks in love.
Whatever those are, There's only one single truth Behind everyone's heartache: "Love hurts when God knows We deserve someone else." _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes I wanna cry out My long kept tears, But I'm scared That no one will bother To show some care.
That's why I've decided To keep it all here.
I don't care If it will be Too hard to bear.
'Coz sometimes, Even friends don't mind If you are in pain.
As long as they see you smile, They'll assume you're ok. _____________________________________________________________________
One disadvantage of a good memory is that, Whenever you feel lonely, sad, and broken, Happy memories tend to creep in, Making the pain harder to bear. _____________________________________________________________________
We all want things to change.
But once they do, We wonder why Things can't go back To the way they were. _____________________________________________________________________
Ever had that feeling You attempt and fight so hard To take someone off your mind And off your life?
But each time you think How to forget, You keep on falling much more. _____________________________________________________________________
What makes the past special Is the way each one remembers the other When they are apart.
They miss the talks, the laughters, And the times they've been together.
Life changes, Memories don't. _____________________________________________________________________
Feelings are never permanent.
Maybe today you love that person, Maybe tomorrow it's hate.
You can never know How much a person Means to you, Unless that person is gone.
Remember: "The end justifies the means."
Sometimes we dream On ideal love we wanted.
When it comes, We give the best To hold on to it.
But though We gave more than enough, They still hurt us.
For the reason We don't understand. _____________________________________________________________________
Sometimes, It's not easy To forgive And forget.
Because seeing the person Who hurt you, Means scratching the scar And letting it bleed Once more. _____________________________________________________________________
You can't stop others To talk against you.
But you can make them eat What they have said. _____________________________________________________________________
If somebody Is taking advantage Of your feelings, Knowing that You love him, Then tell him this:
"I'm just in love But I'm not desperate." _____________________________________________________________________
It hurts to be rejected
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