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Blog EntryQUOTES --- SiXTEENTH BATCHJun 27, '08 11:29 AM
for everyone
Pretending not to be hurt
Is such a brave thing to do.

But you know what?

Crying is even braver.

Because not everyone can face the fact
That some things are not meant to be.
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The most hard headed people in the whole wide world
Are those people who are in love.

Whatever you tell them,
They just wouldn't listen.
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People get hurt with love
Because they try to deny
Its existence or its absence.

Don't make things complicated
For it is hard to find an answer.

If you love each other,
Build up a relationship wherein
You'll both find true happiness.

If you know love has faded,
Just let go,
And don't dream
As if there is still chance
For love to come back.

Because the more you deny
What's inside your heart,
The more pain you are trying to catch.
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I wasn't aware that he came
Only to love me for a while.

I was aiming to be with him forever
But he's not willing to work it all out.

While I was busy planning for us,
He was busy planning his life
With someone else.

It hurts too much
But all I can do
Is watch him walk away
And that's the end of it.

There goes my forever.

There goes my life.

I know he's gone,
But holding on to him
Has become my way
Of keeping myself alive.
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The more we think of the future,
the more we forget the present.

Always keep in mind that,
No matter where we're going,
It starts from where we are now.
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In three words I could sum up everything I learned.

About life: It goes on.

About love: It doesn't last.

About people: They change fast.
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One of the most amazing things in the world is having someone fall in love with you.

Who you never thought of having chances with.
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Love is like drinking beer.

Once you have too much of it,
You begin to act stupid.
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Studies show that...

A woman will never own a man's heart 100%,
And a man will never own a woman's trust 100%.
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Think about this:

Anyone can make you happy
By doing something special,
But only someone special
Can make you happy
Without doing anything.
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Blog EntryQUOTES --- FiFTEENTH BATCHJun 27, '08 10:27 AM
for everyone
They say, if you felt real love and lost it,
You'll never be able to smile.

I'm not sure if that's true.

I can still smile.

It just f**king hurts.
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Just because my eyes don't mist
Doesn't mean my heart doesn't cry.

And just because I come out strong
Doesn't mean there's nothing wrong.

Often, I choose to pretend I'm happy.

So I don't have to explain myself
To people who'll never understand.

Smiling has always been easier
Than explaining why I'm sad.
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For a long time now I've been asking myself,
Where does love go after someone breaks up with you?

Why suddenly we feel tired of loving that person?

Why we cannot offer even friendship?

And I found the answer.

Many may think I'm stupid not to know
But the answer is simple.

It is because one expects something in return
When they give love away,
And when we don't get what we expect
We feel tired or even give up.

Many have said that love is not selfish,
but really, it is.

It always has,
And it will always be.
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The saddest part of letting go
Is the moment you stepped back,
Turned and walked away,
Waiting for a shout calling your name,
Calling you back, that would never come.

Then you're left with tears
Involuntarily falling from your eyes,
And the realization that the person
Is not going to run after you.
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Fact:
There is always going to be
That one thing you wish for but never get,
That one mistake you can never take back
And most of all,
That one memory you would do anything for,
Just to have it again.
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Love takes time.
It needs history of giving and receiving.

Love is the joy that makes people smile.

Love is easy to feel but so hard to explain,
Easy to get but so hard to let go,
Easy to spell but so hard to define.

Love is created not by words but by feelings,
Not by humans but by hearts, not by one but two.

Love is not how you forget but how you forgive,
Not how you listen but how you understand,
Not what you see but what you feel,
Not how to let go, but how you hold.
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He was mine but not really.

I never really had him
So I never really lost him.

I guess this is how we'll always be.

I had him, he had me,
But then again,
There's no "US" really.
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It's hard to wait around for something
You know might not happen.

But it's harder to give up
When you know it's everything you ever wanted.
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Being a third party doesn't mean that
Your destroying a relationship.

It only means that you make two souls realize
That they're not meant to be. ^_^
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The hardest part about walking away
From the one you love is the part
That you have to realize
That they will never ever run after you.
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You know what's the one wrong thing
We all do when we fall in love?

We expect.

And it just ruins everything.
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What you are really afraid of is that
You're not scared of the dark,
But you're scared of what's in it.

You're not afraid of heights,
But you're afraid of falling.

You're not afraid of the people around you,
You're just afraid of rejection.

You're not afraid to love,
You're afraid of not being loved back.

And you're not afraid to try again,
You're just afraid of getting hurt
For the same reason.
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True lover would say this
When he needs space and time:

"Let go though we'll be apart.

I'll be back just let me follow my heart."
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In the cruel world of love,
We've learned that...

Promises aren't contracts.

Kisses aren't assurances.

Sweet words aren't guarantees.

Big hugs aren't bonds.

And that nothing's permanent in this life.

One day, he's mine.

The next day, he's gone.

Last night, he was sweet.

The next morning, he's insensitive.

Loving someone is not always
About fairytales and fantasies.

It's about truth and realities.

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It's tough when people start to leave you hanging.

It's even tougher to pretend that you don't mind.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- FOURTEENTH BATCHJun 27, '08 8:34 AM
for everyone
I like a love that is like
What a baby shampoo guarantees...

No more tears.
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I never wished for someone
Who would offer me the moon and the stars,
Just someone to lay down with
And watch them is enough.
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We often have things
Right before our eyes
Without seeing them.

Because we simply don't know how to focus.

-- W.i.t.c.h.
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Sometimes when you least expect it,
Love taps you on your shoulder
And asks you to move out of the way,
Because it still isn't your turn.
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You say there's no such thing
As letting go of the past
Because it's like a wound.

The bleeding may stop
And the wound may heal,
But the scar will always remain.

So you choose to stay
In the torture chamber.

But what you don't know is
To stop the pain,
You don't have to let go of the past,
You just have to stop dreaming of it
As the future.
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Don't be too cold to someone you care about,
Just because that person couldn't realize your worth.

Instead, be nice to them,
So they could realize
What they've been missing.
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Sometimes you can't stop yourself
From hoping for yesterday to come back,
Especially when yesterday
Was the only future you ever wanted
And needed from the start.
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You know what?

Life is short,
so never hold back.

Forgive like you have amnesia.

Believe like a kid.

Love like crazy.

And never regret anything that made you happy.
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Just when you've moved on and thought you've finally gone far enough, something brings you to a touchstone.

And that's when you realize, love has a habit of coming back
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Sometimes you feel like
Your done waiting and holding on,
But it's amazing how feelings
Are gone one moment and later,
Renewed by a simple song
That reminds you of their voice,
The way they make you smile
And you are completely clueless why.

The way you look away
Once you realize they're staring back,
And the hurt comes back all over again,
And you realize that you didn't let go,
You just thought you did.

Ouch...
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Follow your heart wherever it leads you,
And when you reach a dead end
Or whenever you get lost,
Use your brain to bring you back home.

-- Dori, Finding Nemo
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I wish love is like death -- permanent,
And comes only once in a lifetime.
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If you find yourself in love
With someone who doesn't love you,
Be real with yourself.

There's nothing wrong with you.

It's just that love chose to rest
On another person's heart.

If you find someone in love with you whom you don't love,
Feel honored 'coz love has knocked on your door,
But gently refuse the gift which you can't return.

If you find yourself in love
With someone who loves you too
But love chooses to leave.

Don't try to reclaim it or assess blame.

Let it go.

Remember, you don't choose love.

Love chooses you.

Love has its own time,
own season, own meaning,
own reason for coming and going.
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One night,
Someone noticed a star
Lost its usual bright glow,
And asked it why.

Then it answered,
"I've grown tired and weak
Shining for someone
Who's glance has never been mine."

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How can we love people who don't seem
To make things worth at all?

Why do we become so numb caring for people
Whom at times don't even think of us in a day or two?

Why do we let ourselves hurt and continue hoping
For a love that makes us defenseless?

And why do we prioritize these people
Who only choose us as options?

Are these the reasons why sometimes in love,
We end up losing ourselves?

Sad, but I believe it's true.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- THiRTEENTH BATCHJun 27, '08 7:10 AM
for everyone
I have come to realize and have proven
That no matter how much pain a person gives you,
You just lower your head to cry for a moment
And then embrace the hurt with understanding.

You are not a fool and you don't reflect martyrdom.

It is simply, without hesitations,
Letting love overrate pain,
Without abhorring the person.

Pain is well known for its superficiality
But love dwells deeply forever.
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It's not about being who everyone else wants you to be.

It's about being yourself,
And finding someone who loves every bit of it.
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Not all seemingly happy people are happy indeed.

When the fun's over,
Some sit alone
And quietly bleed.
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Happy moments are evil,
When they're gone.
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Sometimes we expect more from others,
Because we would be willing to do that much for them.
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Women might be able to fake orgasms,
But men can fake whole relationships.
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Forgiveness is setting a prisoner free
And then discovering it was you.
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Every bad situation will have something positive,
Even a broken clock shows correct time twice a day.

Think positive about life.
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Sometimes love is a playing card.

So be careful to whom you choose.

Love spade, love heart,
Love diamond, love flower,
But never love the joker.
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There are battles you have to fight in silence,
Because you know that speaking up,
Saying something or doing something
Will make you lose.
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People say that bad memories cause the most pain,
But actually, it's the good ones that drive us insane.
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Once you lied,
There's already a rule on the mind
Of the person whom you lied to
That is to never believe
How believable your words are,
Even if their not lies anymore.
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Someone should sue Disney,
For making every girl believe
That they have a prince charming.
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Sometimes we think that love should be reciprocal,
That if we are in a relationship,
Everything should be equal.

But that mentality is wrong,
Love isn't about give and take,
But rather give and give.

Remember Mother Teresa was once asked
To define love and her answer was,
"Love is giving until it hurts."

So don't hate yourself if you think you gave it all
And your partner gave only half because in the end,
At least you can say "I loved more."
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Find someone who wants to kiss you everyday,
Who lifts and hugs you when you're jealous,
Who patiently keeps silent when you're mad,
Who fixes your hair just to see your face,
And the one who wants to have lunch with you with his/her family,.

The one who shares his/her drinks with you,
Who squeezes your hand together when you squeeze his/hers,
And the one who'll cut work just to have a date with you.

Find someone who plans and imagines
His/her future with you 7 years from now
And when you find him/her,
Never let go.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- TWELFTH BATCHJun 27, '08 4:50 AM
for everyone
When your heart gets hurt,
You don't need someone to heal the scar
And take away the pain.

What you need is someone
Who will make you realize
That nothing is really broken.
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The reason we are suffering
Is not because love has ended,
But because it still continues,
Even after everything is over.
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Distancing is done for two reasons.

Either because you hate the person,
Or you're just too scared
To fall completely for that person.
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Love is weakest when
There is more doubt than trust.

Love is strongest when
You learn to trust
Despite all doubts.
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Sometimes you just have to put a period
On something that has to end,
And not just settle on a comma.

Why?

'Coz time will come you'll realize
That it's better to see a complete sentence,
Rather than seeing a phrase
That's completely hanging
And doesn't even make any sense.
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I guess, love does fade
That sometimes the heart does get tired
Of longing, of hoping,
That sometimes you just have to accept
The fact that some things can never be
And that you should be contented
With things as they are.

Leaving is a choice.

Staying is a choice.

But you can never really ask someone
To stay or leave.

It's a choice
They have to make.
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Always use your heart in loving someone,
'Coz it's the only accurate
instrument
That knows how it is.

But if the pain strikes you down,
And it hurt you all along,
It's the time for you to use your brain.

'Coz heart knows how to start,
But only brain knows when to stop.
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I don't know why we all hang on to something
We know we're better off letting go.

It's like we're scared to lose
What we don't even really have.

Some of us say we'd rather have
That something than absolutely nothing.

But truth is,
"To have it halfway is harder
Than not having it at all."
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In love, you can make mistakes.

But the biggest mistake you could ever do
Is to give up someone you love and say,
"It's for the best so we'll stop hurting each other."
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We can never be happy
With something that was wrong.

But if somewhere along the way
What was wrong has made you happy,
Then it must have been right all along.
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There are days we feel
That our heart is broken again.

Well, you know why?

'Coz instead of moving on and walking forward,
We hurt ourselves by looking back.
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Sometimes, it's not the possibility
Of rejection that frightens us.

It is the thought of not knowing what happens next
Once you both find out that you feel the same way.
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When you love someone,
It doesn't matter how many times you cried,
How many hurting words you have heard,
But it's how much you care,
And how long you are willing to sacrifice.
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It's sad when people you know
Become people you knew.

When you can't walk right past someone
As if they were never a big part of your life,
How you used to be able to talk for hours,
And now, you can barely even look at them.

It's just sad how things change, so much.
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Pretending to be happy when you're in pain
Is just an example of how strong you are as a person.

Still making that simple smile
When every part of you dies.

Blog EntryEiGHT THiNGS A PERFECT GUY/GiRL WOULD DOJun 27, '08 4:35 AM
for everyone
1. Knows how to make you smile when you're down.

2. Always gives you a goodbye kiss, even when friends are watching.

3. Knows the perfect time to hold your hand.

4. Funny, but knows when he/she needs to be serious.

5. Reacts so cutely when you hit him/her and acts hurt.

6. Stares at you when he/she thinks you don't notice.

7. Gets a little jealous sometimes, but knows he/she's the only one you want.

8. Drive 5 hours, just to see you for 1 hour, or wait for an hour, just to spend 5 minutes with you.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- ELEVENTH BATCHJun 27, '08 3:22 AM
for everyone
The reason why we hold on
To something so tight for so long
Is because we fear that something so great
Will never happen twice.
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It's never the tears
That measure the pain.

Sometimes it's the smile we fake
Just to show others we're ok.
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She said,
"You weren't supposed to mean this much to me, but you do."

He said,
"I know, and I wasn't supposed to fall in love, but I did."
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The only person that deserves you
Is the one that thinks he/she doesn't,
The one that'll stick by your side
No matter how much you mess up,
And the one who will forgive you,
Mistake after mistake.

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A 'goodbye' is never painful, unless,
You're never going to say 'hello' again.
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There are lots of instances
When you feel that everything is going well
Between you and this person.

You get together again one night
And share feelings,
Thinking that tomorrow,
You will have something deeper.

Only to realize the next morning
That what happened that night isn't real.

The two of you can never be,
And it will always be the same old story.
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In order for one to move on,
You must understand what you felt,
Why you felt it,
And why you should no longer feel it.
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How is it to be unnoticed
By the person you notice most?

It's as if you were offering
Your most beautiful portrait
To a blind person.
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Here's a sad reality:

You can't forget a person you love so much
No matter how much you try to do it.

It's impossible, unless,
You learn to love somebody else.
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There will come a point in your life
When you'll get tired of chasing everyone,
Trying to fix everything.

It's not giving up.

It's just a realization
That you don't need all
Those you went after.

Because what you need
Are those who stood by you
Even if you never needed them.
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Life is like riding a bicycle.

In order to maintain balance,
You have to keep moving on.
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Sometimes it's easier to let the one you love go
Not knowing the real reason.

'Coz it would surely hurt more
When you find it unreasonable.
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Law of unattachment:

"Don't cling to anything that needs to go.
Everything in this world is not permanent.
You just have to love it while you have it."
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Sad reality:

"Even if we know that it's hopeless,
We still try.

'Coz the sad fact is we always want
What we know we can never have."
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Sometimes you have to try not to care
No matter how much you do.

'Coz sometimes you can mean nothing
To someone who means everything to you.

It's not pride.

It's self-respect.

Blog EntryPAiNJun 27, '08 2:59 AM
for everyone
Lesson in NCM 202 about pain:

1. What is pain?
` First love.

2. What triggers pain?
` Memories.

3. What can heal pain?
` Time.

4. What lengthens pain?
` Martyrdom.

5. What's the initial syn of pain?
` Tears.

6. What's the primary defense mechanism of pain?
` Denial.

7. What's the primary stressor of pain?
` Theme song.

8. How can you remove pain?
` Let go.

9. How can you forget pain?
` Move on.

10. What's the history of pain?
` Break up.

11. Why do we experience pain?
` Because we have a heart that loves.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- TENTH BATCHJun 27, '08 2:42 AM
for everyone
It's a wonder how love strikes you
At the most unexpected time.

And somehow, in some way,
It disappears exactly at the moment
You are ready to face it.
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It has never been a question
Of who forgets,
But sometimes,
There is a definite pain
On being the only one
Who remembers everything.
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Everyday, I try to prove to myself
How wrong I am with my conceptions with men.

Everyday, I give them the benefit of the doubt,
Hoping that they'd prove otherwise.

And yet, everyday,
Though I find reasons to like them,
I find a whole dozen of reasons
Why I should not trust them.

Men are great friends,
Not boyfriends.
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When I was a little kid,
I fell from a tree,
but I managed to hold on to a branch.

I was up there for a long time and waited,
The silence, the pain in my arms,
The blood pumping in my ears, then I fell.

I can't remember what happened
When I hit the ground.

All I could remember was
The agony of holding on
And the wonderful feeling
Of letting go.
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Love is much like a tattoo.

You take the risk, face the pain,
And yet, place it in a special part of you.

And when the time comes
That you need to erase it,
You have to endure greater pain
And realize that it will forever leave a scar.

A scar that will always remind you
That you had a tattoo, that for sometime,
Symbolized something so special to you.
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We are sometimes very strange people.

The only thing we want to say,
And the one thing that we should say,
Is the one thing that we don't say.

And yet, because the feeling is so real,
And the need to say it is strong,
We are driven to use other words and signs
To say what we really mean.

And many times the meaning
Never gets communicated at all,
And the other person is left
Feeling unloved and unwanted.
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A good apology has three parts:

1. I'm sorry.
2. It was my fault.
3. How do I make it right?

A lot of people usually miss the third part.
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You know why it's hard to be happy?

It's because we refuse to let go
Of the things that make us sad.
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What's love?

It's when you find someone
Who didn't meet any of your standards,
And yet you say, "I've found the right one."
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A couple was celebrating their first anniversary.

The guy gave his girl a dead rose with a little card.

The girl felt insulted and left the guy.

Sad part was the card read:
"This is me without you."
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When you have found the reason
To walk away, never look back.

Just keep on walking,
Even if destination is unclear.

It will take a lot of courage
For every step you make
But it will save some pride
And honor for yourself.

It's better to get lost moving on
Than being stranded and broken after all.
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The purpose-driven life:

"Those who have hurt you in the past
Cannot continue to hurt you now,
Unless you hold on to the pain
Through resentment.

Your past is past,
Nothing will change it.

You are only hurting yourself
With your bitterness.

For your own sake,
Learn from it
And then let it go."
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Talking about sacrifices:

"You do anything for the one you love,
Even if it means risking your own freedom,
Letting your guard down, exposing you bare,
And making you an easy target.

It doesn't mean you're weak,
You're just strong enough to stand and fight
For the people you care for."

-- Sandman (Spiderman 3)
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If you think that
The person you love
Doesn't love you,
You are right.

'Coz if he/she does,
There's no way he/she
Would let you think that way.
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Developing new emotions
For someone is easy.

The hard part is
Getting rid of the old emotions
You had for someone else.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- NiNTH BATCHJun 25, '08 3:44 AM
for everyone
By the time you realize
What your parents said was right,
You already have a kid
Who begins to think you are wrong.
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Sad but true..

You can always forgive the people who hurt you,
But you can never forget what they did.
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Question:
How come that the eye
Is the most amazing part of the human body?

Answer:
'Coz a severe contact with another eye
Can make you fall in love.
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What to do when faced with two choices?

Toss a coin.

It works not because
It settles the question for you,
But while the coin is in the air,
You suddenly know what you're hoping for.
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Can't find the right words
To a certain situation?

Just give that person a hug.

Words have the potential to confuse
But hugs never lie.
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It's better to let that someone know
That you still like them,
So they know how to stop hurting you,
Than keeping your mouth shut,
But letting your heart die and fall.
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To walk is what I always do,
But I prefer not to look back
To people who are no longer walking with me.

Then someone asked me,
"Why did you just let other people leave you?"

Then I answered,
"Life is a long journey.
Let's see who will be walking with me
Until the end of the road."
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The heart is like a rubix cube.

Someone is supposed to mess the cubes first,
So someone else could fit the colors perfectly.
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The father of a girl asked his daughter's boyfriend,
"What can you do for my daughter?"

"I would die for her," the boyfriend answered.

"I don't like you," the dad replied.

"Why?", asked the boyfriend.

The dad answered,
"I'm looking for someone wo would live for her,
Not someone who would just die and leave her alone."
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I hate insomnia.

Not because it doesn't put me into sleep
Despite of my tired body,
But because it puts me into
The state of reminiscing memories
Which I know I can't bring back.

And I wish I could drive insomnia away.

Not so I can dream well,
But so I can save my pillow
From being bathed of my tears.
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A broken trust can be best described
As a crumpled piece of paper.

No matter how hard you try to straighten it out,
It will never return to normal.
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Boy: I'm really glad you're with me.

Girl: What if we're not meant to be?

Boy: You overthink things.

Girl: Tell me, what if we're not meant to be?

Boy: Well, so what? Make a mistake with me.
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Time will come you'll be doing things
You were not supposed to do.

You'll be trying so hard to love other souls
Just to forget the soul
That you truly love yet hurt you so.

You can be happy but deep inside your heart
Are the cuts of every memory
You have been endlessly preserving.

And at the end you'll just realize
That all those times you've been fooling yourself.

'Coz no matter how much you try to let go and forget,
Your soul will only be loving that single soul
That you tried to dream of having back
And spending your life forever with.
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Don't give up when you still have something to give.

Nothing is really over unless you stop trying.

Don't be afraid to encounter risks.

It's by taking chances that we learn to be brave.
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Some people are sweet at first.

Always have time for you at first.

Serious at first.

But why do some people change
After you love them so much?

Maybe all romantic moments
Only happen at first,
And never last.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- EiGHT BATCHApr 17, '08 2:15 PM
for everyone
Real friendship isn't just about
Having something in common.

It's the acceptance
Of that completely annoying attitude

And being able to put up with it.
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A piece of advice:

Never ever reach a point
Where you regret something
Just because you thought
It was a mistake.


Remember, once upon a time,
It made you smile.

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If wonderland was that wonderful,
Then why did Alice choose to leave?


Probably because there are things better lived out
Rather than just dreamed about.

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A nice logic:

When there are rumors about you,
It automatically means you're interesting.

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Sometimes you have to stop loving
The most important person in your life,

Not because the spark is gone,
But because that person is unintentionally
Making you feel worthless.

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"The smarter the woman
The harder it is for her
To find the perfect man."


-- Oprah

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Do not just easily neglect
An effort of a person to keep in touch.

People get tired.

It's not at all times
That they hold on.
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At times when you're sad
About what's going on your life,
Just remember one permanent fact:


Everything changes.

Tomorrow might be different.

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Women are like the police.

They can have all the evidence in the world,
But they still want the confession.

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Do you know what happens
When you hurt people?


They may begin to love you less
And begin to forget
That they loved you once.

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Repeated experiences have but one aim:

To teach what you refuse to learn.

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If you're looking for a happy ending
And you couldn't find one,
Find a new beginning instead.

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I am wanted by many.

I'm looking at some.


I am taken by none.


But I am waiting for one.

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Psych speaks:

It's not what people do to us that hurt us,
In the most fundamental sense,
It's our chosen response
To what they do to us that hurts.

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Never use failure as an excuse
For not trying again.


We may not be able to reclaim the loss,
Undo the damage, or reverse the consequences
But we can always make a new start.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- SEVENTH BATCHApr 17, '08 1:32 PM
for everyone
They say,
"Smart people usually
Have stupid hearts."

And so,
"With the rate of my heart's stupidity
I must be so damn genius."

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It's hard to completely start trusting someone
When everytime you're trying to

They are starting to lie again to you.

What's the lesson?

Just listen,
But don't bother believing.

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Never think that
You're not good enough for anyone.


Always ask yourself
If they are good enough for you.

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I wish I have saved all my tears
When you made me cry,

So that you will drown there and die.
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What I've learned today:

Let go of the things
That can no longer be fixed.

If you force to try to put them back,
Things will only get worse.


Holding on is being brave,
But sometimes moving on
Makes you even tougher.

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If he can't love you back,
Just let go.


Just think that he was just another toy
That mom and dad can't buy.


For sure, you'll find a better one next time.

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Sometimes it's easier to act like you don't care at all
Than to admit that it's killing you.

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The most stupid thing about relationships:

They love you when they see you.


But when they don't,
They flirt with someone else.

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How I wish I could be a stethoscope.

In that way,
I could have the chance to hear
Whose heart is beating for me.

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Sometimes if a string gets too tangled
And messed up to solve,

It's better to cut it out
To start a new one
And save the untangled part.

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Our life is surrounded by people
Who judge you in and out.


They can make or break you.


But the key there is
"Live your own
And never mind them."

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Not at all times love is wonderful.

Unnoticely,
You become an idiot,
Coward and fool.


Worst, it will make your heart bleed
Until nothing is left for you.

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As you read a book,
It's hard to turn into another page
Unless you understand the first one.


Just like love.


It's hard to go on with the new,
Unless you're over with your past.

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If I could hug him tight, I would.

If I could hold him close, I would.


If I could love him forever, I would.


It's not that I don't have the will.


I just don't know if I have the right.

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"Special" is different from "important".

"Special" -- someone you'll never forget for the rest of your life.

"Important" -- someone you need for the rest of your life.

Blog EntryQUOTES --- SiXTH BATCHApr 14, '08 10:20 AM
for everyone
"Try loving someone you've loved before,
And you'll realize that it will either
Lead to the same thing that happened before
Or something better.

Not hard, huh?

But why not try loving someone
Who doesn't love you back?

It's either you see yourself
Giving up or dying daily"

-- Grey's Anatomy
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I was a little gloomy,
And my mom noticed.

She asked if I have a wound
That she may attend to them.

I touched my chest and said,
"There's no blood coming out,
But why does it hurt?"
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Don't always say that
"There's still time".

Because there's also a concept of
"Too late."
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One day you have to wake up
And realize nothing lasts forever.

So when it's done,
It's done.

Move on.
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Sometimes we know the answer
To our questions.

Yet we still ask.

Why?

It's because the answer we know
Is the one we can't bear to admit.
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Two of the hardest tests in life:

` The patience to wait
For the right moment.

and

` The courage to accept
That you've waited for nothing.
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Isn't it great when there is someone
Who would ask you how your day was.

If everything worked out fine
Or if there is something wrong.

It feels really good when you know
Someone treats you special
And you'd find it amazing
That even how busy life may be,
He'd still find a few minutes of their time
Just to send you sweet nothings through texts.

Like everyone else,
We wish for that...
For someone who'd give us,
Something that everyone else wants.

Something which, by the way,
I know, we deserve.
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If cinderella's glass slippers perfectly fit
Why did it fall off along the way?

Maybe it speaks about an important lesson:
"Not eveything that perfectly fits,
Fits forever."
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Fall in love?

That's a hard thing to do.

I'd rather have beer.

It makes you warm inside.

Much like love.

Then when you had too much to drink,
You fall hard.

Same thing.

But when you have too much love and get hurt,
It takes so long to recover.

While with beer,
Just sleep then it's over.
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Never break four things in your life:
1. Trust
2. Promise
3. Relationship
4. Heart

Because when they break,
They don't make noise
But hurts a lot.
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Saying you're strong
Doesn't spare you from pain.

Saying you've forgotten someone
Doesn't spare you from reminiscing.

Saying you've fallen out of love
Doesn't spare you from hurting.

And saying you're ok
Doesn't spare you from fooling yourself.
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Sometime I'm scared
To wake up in the morning
To see that I'm alone.

That's why I tend
To stay up late at night
And wake up the next day cramming.

It's easier keeping myself busy
And denying that I'm alone and sad.
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My heart said:
"I was the one who loved you most
But between us, you lost more.

For someday I can love someone
The way i loved you,
But you will never be loved again
The way that i did."
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Once there was a butterfly in my palm,
But I let it flew.

Not because I don't love it,
But because I wanted it to enjoy
With the
flowers and bees.

Keeping it in my palm won't make it
The best butterfly it can be.

So from a distance,
I'm happier watching it
Fly and play in the garden
While the sun is still shining.

Because when the rain comes,
I know, if it truly loves me,
It will fly back to me.
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Don't hold too long to
What's never meant to be.

Sometimes we need to set things free
Before it hurts us badly.


Blog EntryQUOTES --- FiFTH BATCHApr 11, '08 11:12 AM
for everyone
I'm not gonna hold too long
To what's never meant.

Sometimes,
I need to set things free,
Before it totally kills me.
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Do you know why
It's so hard to forget?

Because in forgetting,
You have to remember
What you want to forget.

How can you forget
If you always remember?
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Have you ever loved
Someone that's so close?

Close enough
That all you need to do
Is grab his hand
To make him yours?

But then,
All you could say is
"I almost had him".

Almost.
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It's funny to pretend unhurt,
When you're bleeding.

To pretend to be strong,
When you're weak.

To say go away,
When you mean
Please stay.

And to say
I've moved on,
But in reality,
You're crying in pain.
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Proven truth:

When a person is really into you,
She/He will always find a way
To have time for you.
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It's wrong to keep expecting,
Especially if the situation
Tells that things are not
Just meant for you.

But are you to be blamed
When someone just keeps
On making you feel
That things are right?
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It's not the great things we do
And the people who applaud that matters,
But the times we screw up,
Break down, fall apart, hit the floor,
And the friends who stick around
And help us laugh through it all.
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The only true painful goodbyes
Are the ones that are never said.

And never explained.
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Moving on?

That's very easy.

Just close your eyes.

Sleep.

And wish not to wake up anymore.
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Once in a while,
Right in the middle
Of an ordinary life,
Love gives us a fairytale.
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"I tried."

The sweetest thing
You could ever say
For a failed relationship.

Maybe the shortest
But it compliments everything.
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A true friend is like blood.

Sustaining life.

Not always visible.

But comes out
Everytime you're wounded.
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When you realize
How hard it is
To change yourself,
You begin to understand
What little chances we have
Of changing others.
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Someday I'm gonna hurt you
With what I might say.

I could even hate you then.

And when I tell you
To leave me and go away,
Promise me.

You won't listen.
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A lovely girl walked up to a guy
And to his surprise,
There were tears flowing down
Her soft, subtle eyes.

"Why do you guys
Always hurt your girl?
Always break our hearts,
And always need to have
More than one girl?
Is it an unspoken competition
Among all men?"
She proclaimed.

The guy smiled,
Handed her his hanky
And answered:
"Why do you girls
Always love the wrong guy?
Always take the other guy for granted,
Always break his heart,
And always need to have
More than one suitor?
Is it an unspoken competition
Among all women?"

Blog EntryGiNiNTUANG PUSOApr 10, '08 1:44 AM
for everyone

INSIDE ANIMO FOODHAUS

Jason: Tara.

Fidji: Wait lng. (Waiting for her mango shake/smoothie/juice)

Jason: Bakit hindi buko?

Fidji: Eh ayoko nun eh.

Jason: Puro ka mango, bakit ginintuan ba puso mo?

Fidji: Oo naman.

Jason: Ginintuan daw.

Fidji: Oo kaya. Mabait naman ako eh.

Jason: Mabait daw. Kasasabi mo lang kahapon na masama ka eh.

Fidji: Ikaw kaya nagsasabi na masama ako, oo lang ako ng oo.

Jason: Ahh, basta, masama ka.

OUTSIDE ANIMO FOODHAUS

Jason: Ginintuan daw puso niya, di naman eh.

Fidji: Hindi naman talaga.

Jason: Labo mo. Sabi mo lang kanina ginintuan puso mo.

Fidji: Hindi ginto puso ko. Pano pa kaya titibok kung ginto puso ko?

Jason: Ang emo!!

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!


Blog EntryQUOTES --- FOURTH BATCHApr 7, '08 10:55 AM
for everyone
In love,
You have to expect absence
At some point.

But that doesn't mean an end.

All you have to do
Is to wait for a time,
And give the person a space.

Because true love is proved
When a person has seen
The best people in the world,
But still turns back
To where you are,
Reaches for your hand,
And chooses you
Above the world's best.
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Pain and sorrow,
Go hand in hand
With true love.

For love
Is never ideal,
But real.

So, don't even wonder
What heartaches are for.

Remember the song 'Iris'?

"You bleed just to know you're alive."
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I hate endings.

It's not because
I'm left alone or
I'm not loved anymore.

I hate endings,
Because they leave me thinking
Of how and when
To start again.
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Risks co-exist with opportunities.

If you don't go after what you want,
Somebody else will.

If you don't ask,
Then you'll never know.

If you don't step forward,
You'd always be in the same place.
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Funny how a man's silence
Can break a woman's heart
Into a thousand pieces,
While a woman's silence
Can give a man
Thousand moments of confusion.
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Waiting for
Someone you love
Is never easy,
Especially when
The one you're waiting for
Isn't aware
That you are waiting.
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"Some people say
They can't live without love.

Well, oxygen is more important."

-- Dr. Gregory House
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15 ways to keep a relationship working:

` Love each other.
` Don't lie.
` Keep communication open.
` Stay sweet.
` When you get hurt, just forgive and forget.
` Never talk about break-ups.
` Never say it's ok, even if it's not.
` Forget about pride.
` If you say sorry, mean it.
` Don't compare your past to your present.
` Don't talk about your stupid exes.
` Give and take process.
` Be aware of his/her feelings.
` When you have a fight, don't let the day pass without being fine.
` Don't be a perfect one, be the right one.
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People have different outlooks in love.

Whatever those are,
There's only one single truth
Behind everyone's heartache:
"Love hurts when God knows
We deserve someone else."
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Sometimes
I wanna cry out
My long kept tears,
But I'm scared
That no one will bother
To show some care.

That's why
I've decided
To keep it all here.

I don't care
If it will be
Too hard to bear.

'Coz sometimes,
Even friends don't mind
If you are in pain.

As long as they see you smile,
They'll assume you're ok.
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One disadvantage of a good memory is that,
Whenever you feel lonely, sad, and broken,
Happy memories tend to creep in,
Making the pain harder to bear.
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We all want things to change.

But once they do,
We wonder why
Things can't go back
To the way they were.
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Ever had that feeling
You attempt and fight so hard
To take someone off your mind
And off your life?

But each time you think
How to forget,
You keep on falling much more.
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What makes the past special
Is the way each one remembers the other
When they are apart.

They miss the talks, the laughters,
And the times they've been together.

Life changes,
Memories don't.
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Feelings are never permanent.

Maybe today you love that person,
Maybe tomorrow it's hate.

You can never know
How much a person
Means to you,
Unless that person is gone.

Remember:
"The end justifies the means."

Blog EntryQUOTES --- THiRD BATCHApr 7, '08 10:50 AM
for everyone
Sometimes we dream
On ideal love we wanted.

When it comes,
We give the best
To hold on to it.

But though
We gave more than enough,
They still hurt us.

For the reason
We don't understand.
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Sometimes,
It's not easy
To forgive
And forget.

Because seeing the person
Who hurt you,
Means scratching the scar
And letting it bleed
Once more.
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You can't stop others
To talk against you.

But you can make them eat
What they have said.
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If somebody
Is taking advantage
Of your feelings,
Knowing that
You love him,
Then tell him this:

"I'm just in love
But I'm not desperate."
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It hurts to be rejected